The answer is: Many are called but few are chosen

Matthew 20 vs 16 and 22 vs 14

The phrase “Many are called, but few are chosen” appears to emphasize the differences in engagement with spiritual teachings and the choices people ultimately make. In Matthew, this statement comes at the end of two parables: the Workers in the Vineyard and the Wedding Banquet. These stories illustrate how God’s kingdom is open to everyone (the call), but a certain depth of commitment and recognition is what defines the “chosen.”

Think of the parable of the Workers in the Vineyard, where labor is amply offered to all who are willing yet pays the same reward. It sends a message about grace, illustrating how God's invitation goes out widely, even to those society overlooks. Similarly, the Wedding Banquet highlights how certain guests are initially invited but do not (or will not) appreciate the significance of the invitation, showing that merely being called is not enough; one must respond correctly and fully to be embraced into the divine community.

Fun trivia—did you know that the phrase echoes through culture? It’s often cited in various forms in literature and music, signifying that not everyone recognizes or appreciates their chance at “joining the banquet.” Just as in the needle and thread of faith, one might argue that relationships, choices, and discernment weave the fabric of one’s spiritual journey. In a way, we all navigate our call, and how we respond determines the kind of experience we create.